if perfect is what you're searching for, then please just stay the same

im currently inspired by the music Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars. i was amazed by the lyrics of how a boy could praise a girl so highly. i've never seen a man written such an honest song how he was really grateful to have his girlfriend just like that and will never want his girl to change because he was happy with just the way she is . i think i'm gonna fall for a man who's romantic enough by writing a song lyric

the point is, everyone is unique in their own way. no need to change yourself to become somebody you are not! God created us different because He wanted us to fill each other. if we are trying to impress somebody by becoming a person we are not, we will eventually end up becoming a fake person. i mean, there's no point in trying to impress somebody. God created you to live in this earth not to please somebody, but rather to please Him. it's not wrong trying to impress someone, but if you end up becoming someone you are not, believe me you'll end up tired. 

nobody is perfect. everyone has a flaw and it is okay to have some. it's useless to find a perfect girl or a boy to have, because actually their imperfections perfected you! have you ever wondered what benefit does it bring if you have a perfect boyfriend?

everyone is never satisfied with their condition and eventually end up wanting more. as time goes by you will end up tired because the boy is too perfect for you. many relationships failed and the reason is " you are too good for me " doesn't that sound a bit too cheesy? then the better one is to have a relationship with someone you simply love. the flaw in fact fills your days and make it colorful, not just a plain fairy tale where the prince is all handsome and tall and oh so caring just like a perfect man you are dreaming of.

your prince will come someday. the one who accepted you just the way you are, who even accepted your flaws and love you for being yourself. when you become who you are, it's when you are most comfortable with yourself and never let someone turns you down. at the end, being yourself is the best way to live your life


victoriajess